Your
medical system might not always offer you the best option if you suffer from
anxiety or depression. Some systems have been known to prefer having doctors
prescribe pills instead of working on the underlying issues. That might be
because traditional psychotherapy can take a long time, and it is cheaper to
simply give the client a psychoactive drug.
You
might have to look for an alternative yourself. I recommend the method I use
and teach: Regenerating Images in Memory, RIM. My
clients have always experienced a clear improvement within the first three
sessions, and many have needed no more than that. You are welcome to schedule a
free call with me to hear more about how I work. Click here to find an
available time: https://vester.li/i04
I just let a
buzzing insect out of my office. It had gotten in somehow and was now trying in
vain to fly out through the window glass. It was unable to understand the
invisible barrier holding it back, and kept trying the same thing.
We humans
are not all that different. Sometimes, we realize we are not moving in the
direction we want in our life, but respond by trying harder. When you have your
nose against the glass, you cannot see it.
The power
humans have, and insects don’t have, is the ability to step back from the
situation. When you gain perspective, you can figure out what is holding you
back and how to move forward. Sometimes, you are able to consider you situation
yourself and find a solution. Sometimes, talking with a friend can help. And
sometime, you need to talk to a professional
therapist. Don’t keep buzzing against invisible barriers. Get help.
The
emotions where visible, when my resent client talked about, how he kept
stopping himself for moving forward. He would start on a project, and then,
when he had completed just over half the project, “things” got in the way.
Using the
emotions as a doorway in. We went back to a situation in childhood, where he had
been ridiculed in front of the class for a project, he had spent quite an amount
of time on. As he sensed himself in the classroom, he could hear his classmates
laugh, and feel how his whole body had tensed up to keep him from crying. And
he realized that the little boy right there, had made a decision to never
complete a project again, in order to protect himself from being hurt once more.
Guiding my
client into a dialog with his younger age self, he was able to comfort the young
self and support him in moving through the emotions. And they both realized,
that completing projects was something they truly wanted.
Later that
week my client happily shared with me how he had gone home and worked on his recent
project. And had completed it within a few days.
Being able
to use the emotions as a doorway into helping our clients, is an effective way
to uncover and work through the roots to our clients problems. And RIM
(Regenerating Image in Memory) is a great tool to have in your toolbox, when you
are searching for the best way to help your client.
You can learn more by participating in a free online group demonstration. Here you can get a taste of how RIM can benefit yourself and your clients and learn more about the RIM method. Sign up to join the next available call here
Doing the webinar you will be guided through a group RIM experienced. Doing the discussion afterwards, you will learn more about the RIM method, have time to ask your questions, and find out if RIM is a good fit for you. Sign up here
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